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AI in therapy : Artificial intelligence is no longer something therapists can regard as a future issue. It is already here!


Like many other therapists, I am experiencing more and more clients attending counselling sessions referring to generative AI as being part of their support system and self-care - using it for things such as making sense of relationships, understanding their emotions, asking questions related to mental health and seeking support when another human being isn’t available.


And we now have UK evidence showing just how significantly AI is beginning to enter the therapy room.


The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) Annual Member Survey 2026 describes technology and artificial intelligence as an increasingly important issue for the profession. More than half of respondents — 53.1% — believed AI was likely to affect their practice in some way. The Society concluded that the conversation appears to be moving from theory towards practice, while members continue to raise legitimate concerns about ethics, confidentiality, data security and protecting the human connection at the heart of therapy.


Another striking finding from the NCPS Annual Member Survey 2026 relates directly to clients' use of AI.


When counsellors and psychotherapists were asked whether clients had told them that they were using AI tools such as chatbots for emotional or mental-health support:

  • 15.6% said frequently

  • 43.1% said occasionally

  • 18.1% said rarely

  • 16.5% said never

  • 6.7% were unsure


In other words, 58.7% of respondents said they were frequently or occasionally encountering clients using AI for emotional or mental-health support. If we include those who said they encountered it rarely, that rises to 76.8%.

Image of a person using AI on a laptop

And the NCPS findings suggest that the effects aren't entirely positive or entirely negative. Practitioners reported clients using AI in a constructive and positive way helping them with organising their thoughts, journalling and reflecting between sessions. It was also being used for psychoeducation and reassurance and could help clients find language to describe their experiences.


But there were also significant concerns about its use - self-diagnosis, over-reliance on AI explanations, misinformation being accepted as fact, expectations that therapy should provide quick answers, reduced engagement with the therapeutic relationship and AI reinforcing existing beliefs without sufficient challenge.


I feel that we are no longer talking about whether AI might eventually enter therapeutic work, for many therapy sessions, it already has. But the mixed picture referred to above is important because it suggests that simply categorising AI as either "good" or "bad" misses what is happening in practice.

 

It therefore has got me thinking – maybe the concerns and questions about this needs to move beyond:

"Should people be using AI for emotional support?"

And move more towards:

"Given that people are using it, how can therapists begin to embrace it’s use more and help clients to do so safely, critically and without losing what is uniquely valuable about human therapy?"


Perhaps therapists also need to begin considering how a client is using AI rather than whether it is being used in the first place.


As therapists, I feel that it is important to distinguish that AI is not therapy but that doesn’t mean it has no place in therapy settings.

  • A journal isn't therapy.

  • A self-help book isn't therapy.

  • A mindfulness app isn't therapy.

  • Talking to a supportive friend isn't therapy.

Yet all these things can potentially support someone's wellbeing.


So perhaps AI can sometimes be understood similarly: not as a replacement for therapy but as a tool to support therapy.


Let’s Stay Curious

When I am training my students at my counselling training centre, Northamptonshire Centre for Counselling Studies, I will often be found to be consistently encouraging my students to remain curious when working with clients. Perhaps this approach needs extending to a client’s use of AI


For example, imagine a client says:

"I've been talking to ChatGPT about this."

A therapist may respond with:

"You really shouldn't use AI for mental-health advice."

But perhaps a more curious response could be:

"That's interesting. What have you been asking it?"

This latter response is more likely to encourage a more helpful conversation about what they might be struggling with.


Another example, perhaps a client asks AI:

"Do you think I'm a bad person?"

Again, instead of stating that AI really shouldn’t be used for mental-health advice, I would suggest that it isn’t about whether the AI system responds with ‘yes’ or ‘no’. For me, it is more about remaining curious in relation to why the client needed to ask AI this in the first place.


The technology may be a new way of accessing perceived support by the client but the psychological processes underneath it often isn’t.


Is it About Safety?

AI is a relatively new entity in the grand scheme of the history of therapy. But perhaps we should consider that this it is now creating a space for clients who feel safer asking AI than talking to another human being directly. 


Another reason to remain curious rather than dismiss the use of AI as not being a ‘real relationship’.


Instead, a curious response could be:

“What feels safer about telling AI this than telling another person?”

Here, we aren’t talking about using AI any longer but instead we are talking to the client about relationships.


Using AI between sessions

In my experience working with clients, I have also noticed that clients who have used AI between sessions have attended counselling sessions more focused, with organised thoughts and being able to verbalise better what is happening for them in the present moment. This was supported by the 2026 NCPS findings.


When isn’t using AI in therapy helpful?

I feel that it is important to provide a balanced view and acknowledge where using AI isn’t helpful, such as AI providing inaccurate information, oversimplifying things that may be a lot more complex and perhaps reinforcing potentially unhelpful beliefs.


The 2026 NCPS survey also found that therapists also reported clients developing expectations of quick fixes or definitive answers, comparing therapists' responses with AI, and potentially placing less value on the slower and more uncertain process of human therapy.


Should we feel the need to compete with AI as therapists?


Another finding in the 2026 NCPS survey was when members were asked about external factors affecting their practices, AI and digital alternatives were increasingly being mentioned as factors influencing client behaviour and potentially reducing demand for traditional private practice.


ai and therapy counselling session

Therapists might experience this as threatening to their private practices or organisations they work for or manage. However, is competing with AI the answer?


Even though AI can provide an explanation of attachment theory in seconds, can be available at 4am or provide 20 journalling prompts instantly – therapists don’t need to compete with this. We provide something that AI can’t - a relationship. Remembering something significant from 6 months ago, noticing body language and silences, experiencing ruptures and repair, providing challenge and vulnerability – the client taking the risk of being genuinely know by another human being.


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If you’re living with fibromyalgia, or know someone who is, you’ll understand just how challenging this condition can be. From unpredictable flare-ups to constant fatigue, fibromyalgia can feel overwhelming—especially when it seems like no one really understands what you're going through.

 

But there is support. In this blog, we’ll explore what fibromyalgia is, and how counselling and solution-focused hypnotherapy at Kelly Porch Counselling and Hypnotherapy (KPCH) can help you manage the condition and regain a sense of control.

purple fibromyalgia ribbon

My Story

In 2010, I began experiencing unexplained pain, extreme exhaustion and stomach issues. I was having a lot of time off work, having lots of blood tests and GP appointments with no cause identified.

 

Fast forward to February 2011 and I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia by my GP in a 10-minute appointment and just sent on my way with no other information or support. This subsequently resulted in a lot more time off work, struggling to cope with a diagnosis that hadn't been explained to me, as well as the emotional impact.

 

Fortunately, I had already started my counselling training at this point and I feel that this is what got me through that initial diagnosis stage due to the mandatory personal therapy aspects of the training.

 

I vowed to use my training to help others diagnosed with health conditions or struggling with chronic pain and chronic health conditions once qualified.

 

Fast forward to today (2025) – I am a qualified Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, Solution-Focussed Hypnotherapist, Clinical Supervisor and Trainer (running two business – my private practice and a training centre where I train others to become counsellors). I am a chronic health/chronic pain specialist (to note I am not medically trained and so this is undertaken in conjunction with any medical treatment the client is having). I continue to undertake the journey of living with a chronic health condition and its impacts.

 

What Is Fibromyalgia?

 

For those who aren’t familiar with fibromyalgia or want to learn more about it - is a long-term health condition that has some/all of the following symptoms (to note this is not a full list of all of the symptoms): -

Woman frustrated and in pain

  • Widespread pain and tenderness

  • Fatigue and low energy

  • Poor sleep

  • Cognitive difficulties (often called “fibro fog”)

  • Sensitivity to light, sound (misophonia), temperature, and touch

  • Low mood or anxiety

  • Digestive problems such as irritable bowel syndrome

 

It’s thought to be related to how the nervous system processes pain, essentially turning up the “volume” on pain signals. While the exact cause isn’t fully understood, it’s often triggered or worsened by stress, trauma, infections, or other illnesses.

 

Fibromyalgia affects each person differently, which can make it difficult to diagnose—and even harder for others to understand. This can leave many people feeling isolated, frustrated, or dismissed.

 

The Emotional Impact of Fibromyalgia

Beyond the physical symptoms, fibromyalgia can deeply affect your emotional wellbeing. You may find yourself feeling: -

 

  • Constantly exhausted, even after sleep

  • Disconnected from your body and your old routines

  • Misunderstood by friends, family, or healthcare providers

  • Anxious about flare-ups or how to manage your life long-term


This emotional stress can worsen symptoms - creating a vicious cycle where pain leads to stress, which leads to more pain.

 

That’s where the emotional and psychological support at Kelly Porch Counselling and Hypnotherapy (KPCH) can be helpful.

 

How Can Counselling Help?

Counselling with me offers a space where you can talk freely to someone who 'gets it' without fear of being judged or dismissed. I won’t tell you to “push through” or “get on with it”—instead, you will be met with empathy, validation, and practical tools to help manage the impact fibromyalgia has on your life.

 

Some of the ways counselling with me can support you include:

  • Understanding Your Emotions: Explore how fibromyalgia affects your mood, confidence, and relationships

  • Reducing Stress: Learn strategies to calm your nervous system and reduce flare-up triggers

  • Expressing Yourself: Talk openly about your frustration, grief, or fear—things you may not always feel comfortable sharing with loved ones

  • Breaking Unhelpful Patterns: Identify negative thought loops like guilt or self-blame, and replace them with more compassionate, realistic perspectives

 

What Is Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy and how can it help?

Solution-focused hypnotherapy (SFH) is a gentle, future-oriented approach that combines talk therapy with guided hypnosis. The goal is not to dwell on the past—but to help you focus on small, achievable changes that move you forward.


During sessions, you’ll be guided into a deeply relaxed state, where the mind becomes more open to positive suggestions and calm thinking. It’s a natural state that feels peaceful and empowering.

 

For fibromyalgia, SFH can help by:

  • Improving Sleep: Teaching the brain to wind down and rest more effectively

  • Calming the Pain Response: Lowering stress can actually reduce the brain’s sensitivity to pain

  • Focusing on Strengths: Encouraging you to notice what’s going well and build on that, rather than only focusing on what’s wrong

  • Creating Hope: Helping you visualise a life that feels more manageable and meaningful—one step at a time

    Counselling room set up for hypnotherapy

How Counselling and Solution-Focussed Hypnotherapy Work Together

Counselling and SFH can complement each other beautifully. While counselling gives you space to process emotions and challenges, SFH helps gently rewire the way your brain responds to stress and pain.

 

Together, they create a supportive, empowering approach to managing fibromyalgia—working with both mind and body to improve your quality of life.

 

You Are Not Alone

Living with fibromyalgia is incredibly hard and can feel life-changing - but support is available. Whether you’re newly diagnosed or have been managing symptoms for years, know that your experiences are valid, and that healing doesn’t always mean “fixing” everything—it can mean finding balance, peace, and empowerment in the life you live today.

 

If you’re curious about having counselling or solution-focused hypnotherapy with me then please reach out. You deserve support that sees the whole you—not just your symptoms.

 

What services does KPCH offer?

  • 1-2-1 (60 minute) in-person/online counselling or solution-focussed hypnotherapy sessions

  • Group (60 minute) in-person/online solution-focussed hypnotherapy sessions (maximum of 6 people – 6 sessions in each round of hypnotherapy)

Bringing new life into the world is a remarkable journey, one that embodies both joy and challenges for expectant mothers. Amidst the physical changes and emotional rollercoaster, many women seek supportive techniques to enhance their birthing experience. Hypnobirthing using solution-focussed hypnotherapy emerges as a gentle yet powerful ally in this transformative process, offering holistic benefits that cater specifically to the individual needs of mothers-to-be.


Understanding Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy

Solution-focused hypnotherapy (SFH) revolves around the principle of focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. It harnesses the power of positive thinking and relaxation techniques to help individuals achieve their goals effectively. For pregnant women, SFH becomes a tool not just for managing stress and anxiety but also for fostering a positive mindset towards childbirth.


Managing Anxiety and Stress

Anxiety and stress are common companions during pregnancy, especially as the due date approaches. SFH equips women with practical strategies to alleviate these feelings. By inducing a state of deep relaxation through hypnosis, SFH reduces cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and promotes a sense of calm. This relaxation response is not only beneficial for the mother but also contributes to a healthier environment for the developing baby.

Black woman labouring on a birthing ball

Enhancing Confidence and Control

One of the key advantages of SFH lies in its ability to empower women by enhancing their sense of control over the birthing process. Through teaching expectant mother's to utilise self-hypnosis, guided visualization and positive affirmations, expectant mothers can experience a smooth and comfortable birth experience. This mental preparation builds confidence, reduces fear of the unknown, and instills a belief in the body's natural ability to give birth.


Facilitating Natural Pain Management

Pain management is a significant concern for many women during childbirth. SFH teaches techniques such as self-hypnosis and deep breathing exercises that can effectively reduce the perception of pain. By altering the way the brain processes pain signals, SFH offers a natural complement to medical pain relief methods, potentially reducing the need for pharmacological interventions.


Strengthening Bonding and Postpartum Wellbeing

The benefits of SFH extend beyond the birthing process and delivery. By promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety during pregnancy, SFH contributes to a healthier emotional environment for both mother and baby. Postpartum, SFH techniques can aid in managing stress, enhancing sleep quality, and supporting the transition into motherhood, thereby fostering a strong bond between mother and child from the outset.


Partner supporting woman in labour

The Role of Birthing Partners

Birthing partners play a crucial role in supporting expectant mothers throughout the birthing process and delivery, and SFH can empower them as well. By learning hypnosis

techniques, breathing exercises, and visualization methods, birthing partners can provide emotional and physical reassurance, fostering a calm and supportive atmosphere. Their involvement not only strengthens the mother’s confidence but also enhances the overall birthing experience by promoting teamwork and shared empowerment. A well-prepared birthing partner can be an invaluable source of comfort, reinforcing positive affirmations and helping to maintain a relaxed state throughout the birth process.


In conclusion, solution-focused hypnotherapy stands as a versatile and empowering approach for women preparing for childbirth. By combining relaxation techniques with self hypnosis, positive visualization and goal-oriented strategies, SFH not only supports a smoother birthing experience but also enhances overall maternal wellbeing. As more women embrace holistic approaches to pregnancy and childbirth, SFH emerges as a valuable tool in the toolkit of modern maternity care, promoting empowerment, confidence, and a positive outlook on the miraculous journey of bringing new life into the world.

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